"I don't care about your existence"

So I told someone this...along with a bunch of other stuff that was pretty much synonymous to the above statement. Why would I say this? Because I meant it...and it was true, and sometimes you have to give people the truth.



But there's a story in here somewhere. Here's what happened.



One of my best male friends, has a girlfriend, lets call her The Plague. Now originally, my friends and I were extremely happy for him when he started dating her last semester. Not because we knew/liked The Plague, but because our friend was in a relationship and he was happy. So two weeks into the relationship, The Plague starts showing a lot of characteristics that resemble a psychotic b****, but again, our friend was happy (or at least thats what he said) so we ignored it, or at least I did because really, its not like I have to deal with her on a day to day basis. So we reach out to the girl, we want to like her, we want her to feel comfortable around us. But this chick is the "I-don't-want-you-to-have-any-friends-outside-of-me- especially-not-female-friends-so-watch-me-sabotage-and-destroy-any-meaningful-friendships-you-may-have-and-turn-you-into-my-slave" type. So what do I do? I keep ignoring it, his relationship, not mine, right?

Until The Plague starts dragging me into her drama...and then I felt forced to let this female know who she was f'n with...

Needless to say, that ish never happened again. But now, my friend is all, "I need you guys to get along for the sake of my sanity blah blah blah" (I mean, thats how it starts to sound after you keep hearing it over and over again) But the funny thing is, its not like I hate the girl. And as far as I'm concerned, the fact that we can walk past each other and not go crazy, is about as much as we will ever get along. (Now if she just so happens to stumble across this, that might change lol) I can't control the fact that my friend wants to date The Plague. Is it sad? Yes. But what can I do? Nothing. To put it simply, it just is what it is....